When someone gets married and decides to incorporate their partner’s last name, the name change not only strengthens the relationship, but also has a significant impact on both people in the relationship with the same last name (or hyphenated last name). Certain energies and vibrations from the name become part of that relationship. 

As a Numerologist, I make a distinction between "organic" name changes, and "artificial" name changes.

Organic name changes are the result of events that are a natural part of a one's growth to becoming their True Self. This might include marriage, or changing one's name for artistic reasons for greater success (especially in the entertainment world). In that case, a name change is a natural next step in the artist's life. An organic name change can also be the result of an individual’s realization that the current name doesn't fit his/her personality – or the name might be connected to a disliked parent or distant relative. 

Artificial name changes, however, are names designed in the (almost always) futile attempt to add or remove certain attributes without going through the normal process of learning, overcoming obstacles, and growth. I hear about this a great deal, unfortunately. There are some so-called "numerologists" who suggest adding numerical vibrations to names in order to become more financially successful, or perhaps more famous. Unfortunately, this often backfires, and the person experiences the opposite effect (the person loses money, or gets involved in a terrible lawsuit, for example). I've seen this happen far too many times. There are no shortcuts to growth and happiness.

What does numerology say about a person who goes back to their pre-relationship name? There's nothing wrong with that. The name that you intuitively feel drawn to using after the dissolution of a relationship is going to be in harmony with who you are.

When it comes to getting a Numerology Chart created, the decision of which last name to use is entirely yours. If you're undecided, I would advise to have both last names analyzed, and a combination with both names included.

My son was watching "Angels in the Outfield" for the umpteenth time yesterday. For a not-so-little guy at 13, he is a remarkable guy, always open to greater realities, and always asking questions. While the movie is certainly a very Hollywood look at angels, it got me thinking...

Angels really are everywhere. In my work, never does a day pass without communicating a message from an angel to someone, or even something for me.

One experience I had a few months ago illustrates this. I was meditating and praying, as I do every morning, when I was immediately overcome with this single question, "Is my angel here?"

Something urged me to open my eyes, and there were three powerful angels standing in my office! I was overwhelmed, but in my very matter-of-fact old Hebrew mentality, asked, "When did you get here?"

They looked at me with a sort of mild amusement (those who know me are certain to know that look!), and said plainly, "We've always been here, protecting you and helping you every day."

Take some time to talk to your angels today and every day. They are with you, helping you and protecting you. 

In a time where so much chaos, anger, confusion, and hatred abound, calling on your angels is the BEST thing you can do!

Saint Michael the Archangel, enfold me in your wings. Thwart the designs of evil, and help me to accomplish the mission of healing and light I've been given. You who stand at the throne of God, defend me and protect me! Amen!